Thursday, June 15, 2006

Husband #1: Arthur




我在購物台的"一號老公" - 阿民. 打從第一天認識就非常投緣, 而且感情已經好到比一般夫妻還好! 我最愛他那棒球選手的身材. 真是個健康陽光的好男人! 只可惜他老是愛上不適合的女人. 感情是有點坎坷, 不過他是個悶騷的男人. 老公加油!

My #1 husband at the shopping network; from the beginning we got along so well that our bonding is probably stronger than the real married couples. He's got the baseball player's body...yummy =)

It's such a shame that he's still single. What a good catch he is! Unfortunately, he always falls for the type of women who are wrong for him. It's like he's drawn to women who are either depressed or love drinking and partying too much. Everyone knows that no nightlife queen will fall for an outdoorsy guy. That's what happened to him last time! Darling, you still have me...I'm always here for ya! Luv ya.

Sunday, June 11, 2006

Husband #2: Vincent




二號老公昌哥 - 他是個貼心的好男人, 會下廚做菜的那種新好男人. 我對於廚藝不錯的男人有高度的好感, 如果會烤蛋糕那更好, 因為我愛吃甜點! 我們無所不聊, 而且是會互相照應的超級好朋友. 我們的興趣相同, 喜歡各種不同類型的藝文活動, 一起參加之後可以聊天吃飯, 我們真正的享受生活! 而且我們都愛旅行, 進入電視購物之前也都在廣播圈發展了很多年.

My #2 husband Vincent used to work in the radio business for many years before stepping into TV Shopping. He's a very thoughtful person and loves cooking. It's fair to call him a MetroSexual. I've always liked men who are good cooks, especially those who can bake as well. I love sweets!

We enjoy all sorts of cultural events and are able to talk about anything and everything. We certainly know how to enjoy life to the fullest! And we both have a thing for traveling. Once upon a time he worked as a tour guide!

Monday, June 05, 2006

成功的新典範

前幾天收到一封電子郵件, 我對於寄件者是一點印象都沒有, 但是內文提出了一個不同於世俗的看法. 真正的成功"不在於你贏過多少人,而在於你幫助過多少人."

我們從小到大努力唸書考試, 追求的不就是成績可以名列前茅. 我好像都考不到第一名, 再怎麼用功了不起也就是第二名. 我其實也無所謂, 因為我爸媽不會特別要求我要考試第一名, 他們比較關心我今天有沒有練琴. 所以我一直有著 "老二哲學". 我連在班上漂亮女生的排行榜也只有第二名, 永遠都會有一個氣質美女排第一名. 乍聽之下好像很膚淺, 不過這都是男生的鬼點子! 想想看我們女生從小就要受到這樣的歧視和侮辱, 都是男生不好, 搞得女生從小就開始互相排擠競爭.

雖然我老是敗在"氣質", 可是我是有名的熱心助人, 從小就是個大姐頭 (根本就是個惡勢力)! 居然沒當上太妹, 也真是個奇蹟. 自小學時代就會幫同學"喬"疑難雜症, 延伸到我目前的生活. 之前的工作在電視購物台, 大家表面上是很光鮮亮麗, 不過發現一個很有趣的現象: 很多在這裡上班的人 (包括主管級) 都很會虛張聲勢, 在工作能力和經濟能力上 "打腫臉充胖子". 如此虛榮, 如此不堪一擊. 全身名牌的人是口袋空空, 一毛錢也沒有. 做到副總位子的人其實只會說大話, 而且說話不算話, 空有頭銜可是沒有真材實料. 為什麼他們都不會心虛呢? 只有半杯滿卻要把自己講得像滿到溢出來而且是不可多得的好水, 我只能說"瞎".

有位新來的同事再努力打進我們的圈子之後, 開始借錢. 數字都不大, 但是不還錢是會讓人心裡不爽. 兩位債權人跑來找我, 希望可以早日拿回辛苦錢. 我不但留了一張充滿警告的字條在債主的辦公室桌上, 還打電話威脅他近日內把債務償還, 以後通通不准借錢. "有本事你來跟我借!" 我還規定他不准在我的地盤開口借錢, 這不就是惡勢力!!! 搞得他不敢和我的朋友有任何交集, 見了人就裝作沒看到.

其實不管朋友有什麼樣的需要, 只要人家開口了我就盡量幫忙. 答應的事也一定要做到最完美才罷休. 多年之後我發現人脈在不知不覺當中也建立了不少. 只是我不習慣對人開口, 不然我早該飛黃騰達了.

話說回來, 我對於人際關係的經營是很真誠的. 如果我很不屑某一個人(親戚包括在內), 我不鳥他也不會拍他馬屁. 我的個性直的有點可愛, 常常會說些不中聽但是你又不得不承認是事實的話(讓人家更氣)

以前年輕時的菱菱角角在多年的磨練後變得圓融一點, 終於了解出外就是靠人脈. 好的人際關係會讓任何人成功. 以前天不怕地不怕而且也不把人家放在眼裡. 還好我這輩子貴人很多, 都會在我最需要幫忙的時候出現.

希望當你成為我的朋友之後, 要有心裡準備你要和我做一輩子的朋友.

將來有一天我老了, 我身邊的朋友也陪著我一起老, 那麼我這一生過得算是成功! 不虛此生.

Sunday, June 04, 2006

Friday, June 02, 2006

She Works Hard For Pleasure

Perhaps it's difficult for everyone to comprehend why I have such a passion for radio. Perhaps it's impossible for anyone to understand why I'm a much happier person on air than on TV. I'm working for a lot less money now than ever before. But I look forward going to work and enjoy every second of it - on air and off air.

Radio is my passion and it can be very fulfilling as well. My present way of life makes me feel happy and satisfied. Most people are preoccupied with materialism. How many of them can say that they're truly happy and content? People who love what they do and do what they love are few and far between. There's something I also notice from my current lifestyle. When I'm content with myself and my life, I'm less likely to become obsessed with material needs & wants.

Despite this being my first radio show in Mandarin, I've had the opportunity to interview those whose native tongue is not Chinese. On May 12th I met Kevin Kern and his wife Pam and interviewed both for almost an hour. He's an extrodinary composer and pianist. His vision may not be as clear as most of us but he can work wonders on black & white keyboards. During our interview, Kevin and Pam held hands the whole time. Not once they let go of each other's hand. I guess that's what being married is all about. When they told me that they met online, I was stunned! They chatted online for a year before meeting up in person. WOW! That's really something. They became inseparable after their first face-to-face encounter. That's the way true love goes. They suspect that the Hollywood Blockbuster "You've Got Mail" was based on their story because it's pretty much how it happened for them.

Not too long ago the Broadway production "West Side Story" came to Taiwan. I wanted to have the cast on my show more than anything else. Kudos to my assistant! She not only arranged to have "Tony" on the show but also "Maria" and "Anita". How exciting it is to meet the cast up close and personal!

"Tony" is new to the cast. He auditioned for the part on May 1st and the offer came in on May 2nd. By the 7th of May, he was scheduled to go on stage as "Tony." The rumor has it that the original "Tony" was canned. The director was going to have a cow because he was partying too much after the show and letting go of his perfect figure. What I don't understand is that there's no way that the original "Tony" could be fat. This role is so demanding. He has to sing, dance and act. A lot of times he has to sing and dance at the same time and he's not allowed to miss a beat or sound exhausted. Playing "Tony" will keep him fit for sure.

Before I had the cast on my show, I've heard rumors that "Tony" is very handsome. I Know I know it's so shallow to judge a man by his look. I like a piece of fresh young meat =) He's only 24 this year...And yes, the rumor was absolutely right on the money. You Pretty Young Thing! Michael Jackson will love you too!

Next year will be the 50th anniversary for "West Side Story." Amazing how long the show has been playing and how we can still relate to it as if it was written in the 21st century! The social / racial issues still exist and they have not improved much. And there's nothing compares to a love story like this besides Romeo & Juliet.

I had dinner with my friend Simon last week and he said he's not sure if he's even heard of a musical called "West Side Story." I almost fainted. Not only it's something that everyone should know but I strongly encourage everyone to go see it at least for once in this lifetime. I'll pass "Mission Impossible 3" and go for "West Side Story" on any day! C'mon...you know MI3 will make it to HBO or some movie channels in less than a year.

Have you heard of Judy Collins? No one can sing "Amazing Grace" like she does! A piano prodigy became a folk singer. She released her first album at the tender age of 22. However, she's more than just a singer who was invited to perform "Amazing Grace" for Bill Clinton's first inauguration in 1993. She's an accomplished writer and has written a memoir and two novels. And she even posed nude on the cover of her album "Hard Times For Lovers". How cute is that?!

At the age of 66, she's busy traveling, writing, touring, practicing the piano (yes, even a piano prodigy needs to practice!), composing, and enjoying life. I admire her so much that I vow to become just as energetic and positive like Judy when I reach 60.

Her son took his own life at the age of 33 due to depression. I can only imagine that he was terrified when depression attacked. I have an uncle who also suffers from depression. He then turned to alcohol and would turn the house upside down looking for booze when one of those moments hit him hard.

Judy seems so strong and confident even though life hasn't always been smooth sailing for her. That's the attitude all of us need when life doesn't go our way. If everything goes your way, then life becomes too easy and you're likely to lose motivation and ambition.

People from all walks of life are invited to come on my show and we chat like old friends even though we might just meet for the first time. Everyday our show features something different. We're all in it for surprises and it's a treat for me as well as for you! This work is really cut out for me because I love talking, especially when I can interview interesting people and ask anything that comes through my head!
Judy Collins is a two-time Grammy winner. And there's nothing can keep her from singing!