Different strokes for different folks! I know what I like in a man. There are things that you have to go through before you know for sure that it ain't for you!
When I look back in my dating history, I've dated mostly SMART, TALL, DARK, & WELL-BUILT MEN. And 80% of them wore glasses. I wouldn't date short men. It's such a physical thing. It's shallow. So shoot me =)
It's worth noting that I've mostly dated non-Asians (could it be that they are usually tall?!). I don't think I did that intentionally. It just happened that way. Take your chance, Ask me out and I just might say "Okay!" if I'm interested or in a good mood or needing charity work to accumulate good parking karma.
Asian men tend to date within their own race. There's nothing wrong with that. Similar cultural backgrounds make them bond easier with Asian chicks.
When it comes to LOVE, my motto is "Love sees no color." What can I say...I'm a believer in equal opportunity! I've branched out to both ends of the race spectrum (Asian vs. Non-Asians). Despite of my motto, my experience tells me that I'm better off with non-Asians.
After turning 30, I decided to broaden my horizons. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. As long as he's not a shorty, I'm game! The truth is beggars can't be choosers.
I still remember the night when "L" and I first met, He asked me, "What kind of guys do you like?"
Well, I could be playful by saying, "Someone like You!" But I didn't think much of him at the time.
Instead of being a flirt and a tease, I was very straight-forward. "As long as they are men with a d*ck and know how to use it!" I said it with such a smirk.
He liked me from the moment he laid his eyes on me. At the end of the night, he walked up to me with such a confident look. Self-confidence makes half of a man. The other half comes from his upbringing.
"I like you! You might think it's all B.S. But I'm telling you now...I really like you and you're never gonna get rid of me!"
The first thought came to my mind was "Shit! I just got myself a stalker!"
Recently I was asked by the same question again. I always wonder if men ask such dumb questions because 1. they want to test the water before making a move; 2. it's simply a pick-up line to get attention from chicks; 3. they need to make sure that you are into men.
He definitely seemed interested at the time he posed the question. But he turned out to be a man with a short attention span.
So, boyz...I like y'all as long as you don't have short attention spans!
I may be a free spirit but still want to love and to be loved just like all women do!
