Saturday, July 11, 2009

Notes from Reading "THE GAME" by Neil Strauss

Recently I finished reading “THE GAME: PENETRATING THE SECRET SOCIETY OF PICKUP ARTISTS” and thought there are a few useful tips for all my single friends there out there.

1. Characteristics of Alpha Male: confidence, well-groomed, a sense of humor, connecting with people, social center of a room

2. Basic steps of the GAME – Find, Meet, Attract, and CLOSE

3. Group Theory – beautiful women are rarely found alone and you’re more likely to find your target attraction in a group situation

4. Important Tip on how to attract the one you desire is NEG – pretending to be unaffected by her charm and accidental insult or backhanded compliments

5. Three Second Rule – you must speak to the woman 3 seconds after spotting her or you’ll lose the crucial timing

6. Everyone wants one thing and it’s universal – we need touch / human contact

7. Always look for at least 3 IOI before any phase shift – IOI = indicator of interest

8. Secrets to meeting women – what to say, when to say it, how to say it plus flirting & cold reading

9. Cat String Theory works like a charm – just act like you’re the prize

10. It’s best to have a wing man / woman while sarging because he / she will keep you socially comfortable. Look for wing who is confident and intelligent

11. Human relationship formula – Rapport=Trust + Comfort Sex=Interest + Attraction + Seduction

12. What Women Want – wonderful nights out + Romantic attention + Emotional connection